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Post by Zemos Nokk on May 7, 2008 17:03:54 GMT -5
What do you do if you think the person you care about most, the person you love more than anything, is thinking of killing themselves and you live ten miles away? Cause I need answers quick. A.S.A.P. Even faster if possible.
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Post by illusion on May 7, 2008 18:32:21 GMT -5
uh, talk to em over the phone, tell them how much you love them, how sad you'll be when they are gone...idk
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Post by Zemos Nokk on May 7, 2008 18:33:29 GMT -5
I've tried that. Nothing's been working.. But thanks for helping Illusion...
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Post by illusion on May 7, 2008 18:37:38 GMT -5
um...then I'm at a loss ^^;
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Post by Yanagi Uxinta on May 8, 2008 9:42:40 GMT -5
try and get them to say what's wrong and why they think they have to go that far, try and reason it out with them. Help them put it into perspective. If you trying to persuade them doesn't work, tell someone who could do something about it, even if your friend doesn't want you to. After all, what's more important, them being alive or them being mad with you for not doing what they say and letting them take their own life? I know I'd rather live with my friend alive and being angry, even hating me rather than them dying but still being on good terms with me.
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Post by misshanfreek on May 8, 2008 14:21:53 GMT -5
im assuming its a she from the c-box, so like its been said, tell her how you feel, an explain how killing herself would be a waste and theres people who would miss her terribly but dont make it all about the other people, tell her she has the rest of her life ahead of her and even if things are rough for her now, things will get better and you can/will help her through it as much as you can, and 10 miles isnt that far (about 10-15 minutes in the car?) so you could tell her you could see her often and stuff, or get a bus or cab
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Post by Zemos Nokk on May 8, 2008 15:55:51 GMT -5
Buses don't come around an taxi's don't exist in Hampstead, and she won't tell me what's wrong...
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Post by Yanagi Uxinta on May 8, 2008 15:59:06 GMT -5
well, if you definately know what she's planning, if not why, then try and tell someone if you can. Someone like her parents or someone who could stop her, and get her help.
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Post by Zemos Nokk on May 8, 2008 16:00:57 GMT -5
Parents aren't a good idea in this case. The only thing I guess I can really do is trying and go over to her house and stop her there...
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